Posted: 8/16/2023
Our team is here for your team when butterflies are actually a sign of anxiety
Books and homework and tests, oh my! The fall semester has officially commenced and as families across North Texas adjust to busy schedules, back-to-school jitters might be creeping their way into your home.
Although nerves can be normal, those butterflies in your student’s stomach could actually be a sign of anxiety in response to change.
“As kids, teens and young adults head back to the classrooms and lecture halls, they could be experiencing an increase in anxiety,” Parkland Psychologist, Natasha Benatti, PsyD, explains. “Having open conversations with your family about these changes can help validate their experiences.”
Returning to a structured environment with expectations surrounding grades and performance can be daunting for some children. Larger transitions such as changing schools, going from middle to high school and making new friends are also triggers for anxiety. Parkland psychologists recommend paying attention to the way your child speaks about these changes to recognize the areas where they may need some extra support.
Children may not have language to describe the emotions they are experiencing, but parents can keep an eye out for certain behaviors. According to Dr. Benatti, things such as irritability, changes in appetite and sleep, complaints of stomach and headaches can all be signs of anxiety.
To ease the transition, Parkland providers recommend these coping tips:
- Create a safe space for you and your child
- Find ways to meditate and breathe
- Normalize talking to your family about your feelings
- Make brief check-ins as a family
- Have a family conversation and discuss ideas or expectations for the school year
Adjustments in schedules and routines affect the entire family. Parents may also experience nerves when dealing with new schools, teachers and adjustments in childcare.
If adjusting to new circumstances is disrupting your daily routines and you notice your child’s anxiety continues a week or two after school begins, let your primary care provider know. They may refer you to a Parkland Behavioral Health Clinic. Visits are by appointment only. To schedule, call 214-590-5536.
For more information about Parkland services, visit www.ParklandHealth.org/yourteam.